Disclaimer: This post is the outcome of personal experience of past decade and if it resemble with others’ thinking, will be purely co-incidental.

  Phase 1: Guys and a gals get enroll in the prestigious institute such as TIME {presently I am} with a ton of feeling to bell the CAT. With a hope to churn lot of money and with this hope they focus to each and every class that goes in flow. What’s more, seat also gets segregated i:e boys one side, girls on other.  Status – single.

Phase 2: They start exchanging their dreams, their points, jokes and personal opinion on the faculty. Their segregated seat, turns out to be a hot discussion among others; both sit side by side, discuss about various aspect and finally those three words are spelt. Status changes from single to committed.

Phase 3: Bunking classes, going to theater, pub, parks becomes the routine, searching for the low tariff plans of various network, late night talk, early morning wishes are shared and finally ,if lucky, bed shared.

Phase 4: Examinations are round the corner, preparation almost zero, scratching beard and blaming the partner for the present condition and finally breakup occurs. But nothing miracle occurs and eventually results are zero. Status changes from committed to single.  

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People say "happiness is NOT doing what u like but LIKING what u do..."

For me happiness is................................................................................................................................

1.when u desperately want to bunk B-Tech lecture and the teacher promptly picks u to answer a question you dunno and he asks u to get out...u dance all the way out in the corridor..[What’s better: he gave you the attendance also. Ha ha ha]
 
2.when u r walking on a street smiling over an sms joke..your eyes meet to one of the pretty girl damn  sexy also and..she smiles back in a lusty way…{ impossible in INDIA dude} 
 
3. When u catch hold of your friend's cell...snoop away to glory, reading msgs that they have been hiding for ages and smirking,sniggering and handing it back to them[making a mental note of teasing them to death;)]

4. When your are eating “golgappas” and eventually the bill turnout of budget and you are haggling for that.

5. when u give a horrid “Theory of machine” paper and masturbating to get at least a “D” grade to pass and eventually it turns to be “E”. { chill maar yaar aisa hota nahi hai…ha ha ha}:O

6. when you find a thousand rupee note from your old jeans while you are running short of money. { mujhe mile to sala ek aur fix deposite karne ke liye rupiya mila…I will be on the utopia of happiness}

7. The last day of semester exam when you are writing your last paper and your thoughts are tossing you that “beta bus ye exam nikal le phir to apni girlfriend ke sath date pe jana”.
 
8. When you are travelling in cattle class without ticket and you are caught in the massive influx and u don’t know Bengali and ask your fellow passenger “ baba tumi kothai nambo” and suddenly from nowhere the TT appears and you start hiding yourself { courtesy: I was caught in MAA TARA EXPRESS and paid Rs. 286/- against the actual fair of 38. }

9. Going to college in a jammed pack bus standing beside the sexiest girl brushing with her butts and you give a damn innocent look as if the whole credit goes to influx. {Thanks to 8:50am MAFUZA bus}
10. Giving a breakup party to your friends and meanwhile your girlfriend patch you up and eventually the party turns out to be a patch up party from breakup party.

11. When your roommate ironed his shirt and you gently put it and went to college.

12. When the professor is taking the class and whole eyes is on the window of girl’s hostel in a hope to marvel the beauty of GOD’s creation and you are suddenly caught doing so and what’s more if at the same jiffy the window opens and you are asked to leave the class room. {Thanks’ to our psycho director C.T. Bhuniya for doing the 1 good thing i: e making girls hostel inside campus and shifting our classroom beside that} 

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Disclaimer: This post contains some of the filthy lines whose resemblance with anyone will be purely co-incidental. Further comments will be entertained and point 9, 12 are dedicated to all BITM’ians especially MECHANICAL DEPARTMENTS. 

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It is not completely wrong when they say-
"Everything happens for a reason"

What a great lesson it was.

Some people come into your life..
become a part of it in a big way..
n then leave.

hurts deeply..

we fail to understand the true reason behind it..
but later after few days/months/years when we look at what it has made out of the kiddish foolish vulnerable "you"..how it has transformed you into a tougher and wiser grown-up..
we realise how imp that was.

It was important to go through all of that to be able to look through things with a new improved perspective..
to move on to a new stage of life..
finally come out of the teenage dreams fantasies and image of a goodie goodie world..
stop thinking and speculating too much.
.to finally learn and go with the flow..
enjoy the flow..

I hate it when I give out my fundas like this on my blog..I feel like a stupid emotional fool crying for sympathy and attention..but this is MY blog..i have the right to scribble what ever i feel like..after all one purpose of creating it was to vent out my feelings.

When one lesson wasnt enough..when my stubborn heart refused to accept that this is how things are..God gave me a new lesson that finally did it.

I cant stop appreciating God for all the pain he has given me. All that was so bloody important.

If today I find out that my partner has been cheating on me I think I will be more prepared to deal with the situation than I would have been had the same thing happened 6 months back..(No no my partner hasnt cheated on me,infact i dont have a partner!, i have had only a msg partner) :-(
After a complete transformation.

One thing to be noted here is she evens gives you time, new people and new circumstances to make sure that all the bruises get healed..but makes sure that you've learnt to never stumble and fall down due to the same stone in future..

I feel so fresh..
I feel like a new born..
New spirit..
Better equipped..
I suddenly feel like I am standing on a cliff..fresh air and enthusiasm gushing through my veins..
I feel so Fear less..
I've finally learnt what they mean by "Taking it easy"

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